The act of nature the human body expresses which are prohibited by social norms can have health risks. Or so I speculate.
I saw this BBC article today which explains that instead of fighting against nature, you can work with nature to gain what you want in life. For example, this article explains that instead of fighting against elephants that come near your village which may result in unfavourable circumstances, you can use a fence of beehives to keep them away as the elephants are afraid of them.
Then I thought of my own behaviour and accepted them.
This is one of many similar stories but a perfect example which highlights my point. I was on a train in Tokyo with a friend. I had a sudden urge to sneeze and in order to do so, I faced down and placed my hand from the bridge of my nose parallel to the ground. This meant I did not cover my mouth and proceeded to sneeze in this manner. When I returned my head to the normal position, my friend was actually disgusted with me and said I had incredibly bad manners. One should cover the nose and mouth when sneezing in such explosive expulsions. According to her.
This is the problem I have with such socially acceptable suggestions. Facing down firstly projects all of those vile germs towards the ground. A hand parallel from the bridge of the nose ensures that they will not be projected up to the heights of people’s faces. This to me is a relatively clean manner which prevents other people catching any disease that lie in my body. It also means that they are not smeared onto objects other people touch i.e. unlikely to be transferred to other people. Unless of course there are people who like licking the soles of people’s shoes or ties shoelaces with their mouths. Which I think are next to none.
What happens when you sneeze into your hand? For starters, your hand becomes a hotspot of everything that came out of your body. Secondly, you will smear it on something whether it be on the side of your jeans or a handrail on the train. The likelihood is you’ll forget about it and eventually smear it on something public which then becomes transferable to whoever touches that public something. That person may buy something to eat and use his or her hands to eat it. Thinking of common daily lifestyles, one does not wash their own hands enough. It is not only hideously disgusting for you, but for others too and to me that is bad manners.
Sneezing, coughing, vomiting, defecating, farting and other natural disapproving behaviours are there for a reason. To get whatever is bad for you out of the body thus making you a healthier person.
Sneeze – an involuntary expulsion of air due to the irritation of the nostrils
Cough – a condition of the respiratory organs causing coughing
Vomit - matter vomited from the stomach
Defecate - discharge faeces from the body
Fart - an emission of wind from the anus
None of the above sounds particularly appetising and are due to something negative within the body and the act of doing anything of the above is to get it out for your own benefit. This includes burps, diarrhoea, runny noses etc. etc.
Don’t be socially accepted when it comes to this. Get it out for your own benefit. If you worry about others, think of ways that can benefit both parties.
JD Japan 9:37 am on January 1, 2012 Permalink |
Sounds like what I’d like to achieve by the time I hit 22, if not more. I’ve always wanted to live in the country but the fear of being lonely is always lingering in my mind. Keep it up
-Jeff
Robert Kodama 12:12 pm on January 1, 2012 Permalink |
Nice blog! I think once you’ve finished University, you should definitely try at least for one year. Instead of just wanting to do something, just do it!
Or a nice holiday for a taste – though I must say that a holiday will give you only just that.
Skip 7:03 am on January 6, 2012 Permalink |
Akemashite omedetou gozaimasu. (How many times have you said this since midnight on December 31st? )
I suddenly feel far too old to even be commenting on anything you post, Kodama-kun. Your life is just starting (and I have to say I thought you were much older than 22). Mine is mostly spent. I am in Tokyo now but have been at my place in Miwamura near you since December 28th, so I know what you mean about there not being many young people around Hitachiomiya. Everyone in Miwamura seems ancient to me, and I am ancient myself, although in Tokyo my friends are often much younger than me. The good news for you is that most Japanese tend to socialize with their peers and those of the same age. It sounds like you may just need to try harder to expand your circle of younger friends there. The fct you are not Japanese must be an added attraction for the people you meet there; don’t they find you sort of….exotic? I am an old fart, and everyone is uniformly decent and gracious to me there.
BTW, there is a university in Mito. You might want to volunteer to act as a judge or something for their English Language Club – where you can surely expand your circle of friends, and maybe find some other activities you’ll enjoy. (Good place to meet girls, too, I think.)
I am heading back to Miwa tonight after work (I found the fastest way is to take the bullet train to Utsunomiya from Tokyo station, then transfer to Karasuyama, which is closer to my place than Hitachiomiya). Be there until Monday p.m. My cell is 080 4650-3745 – if you get bored to tears give me a call, although I understand perfectly if you don’t feel like it. (age.) Anyway, best wishes for a great new year in Ibaraki. And many new friends you will enjoy making.
Robert Kodama 3:49 am on January 7, 2012 Permalink |
Cheers mate
are you no longer saying in miwa then?
Yes it has been tough. I do want a circle my own age too though. I have tried the university and had moderate success… I think I just need to go back to a city life. London to Hitachiomiya is a sudden change and I’m just not cut out for country life. It’s kind of making me bonkers. Going to Tokyo is like therapy. Ahh but at least it’s been sunny every day!
Skip 5:54 am on January 14, 2012 Permalink
Good to meet you in person and hear about la vie Hitachiomiya from an old timer. Thanks for your time, Robert.
My Canadian friend Allison, who prefers cities like you, wasn’t so taken with my part of Ibaraki during his brief visit so he enjoyed getting to gab with you. Hope he wasn’t too much.
Is here an email address where I can reach you without getting it posted here, by the way? I feel my contributions are not appropriate nor interesting enough for public consumption as a rule. lol
I am in Tokyo this weekend but will be back next weekend and would like to meet your friend who teaches in Miwa if you happen to have time and feel like coming around for a visit that would work too, I think.. I was kind of pleased when I asked around about your American teacher friend and no one knew of him, which I take as a good sign there are other sources for local gossip, which makes life easier for everyone around there. I prefer a healthy veneer of privacy – even around my admittedly somewhat uneventful life.
Robert Kodama 5:57 am on January 14, 2012 Permalink
Not at all! It was nice meeting you both too. I will text you an address too.
Saturday afternoon would be best, does this suit you?